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If your "boyfriend" was to show you pictures of all the (in his words) "pretty girls" he met on his week long trip... would that make you upset? And to make you even more upset, he remembered the names of everyone of them and could tell you where they all are from...

Would it hurt you to see him with other girls in pictures he asked other people to take for him? And talked to you about a girl that he said he wanted to have sex with a long time ago, then he comes home with her picture on his camera?

And would it kill you inside for him to come back and find him only staring at your chest, always trying to put his arm around you, and just pretend like your his little toy?

This is killing me, I don't know how much more I can take...

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sunsetcloud
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Time:2006-05-05 10:46 am (UTC)
Yeah it seems very insensitive and rude of him to say that to your face; let alone go on like he doesn't have a girlfriend. I hope he told them he had a girlfriend; who knows what might have happened on his trip! Don't mean to scare you, but these things do happen, unfortunately.

He sounds very shallow. Maybe you should have a long discussion with him, telling him how you feel about all this, and make him listen. In fact, it's not a maybe. You really should. Communication is the only way forward in a relationship. Keeping feelings bottled inside only makes it worse, and then he won't realise (as much as it is common sense for his GIRLFRIEND to be upset by this, but he doesn't understand) and keep doing it over and over.

He sounds also like a sleaze. Perhaps you should break up with him and find someone better. You can do better than a guy who only has one thing on his mind.
They are a rare breed, sincere guys, but they are out there.
And when guys find someone they really connect with, it's not all about sex for sure. Not to hurt you, but maybe you are both not right for each other.

Good luck.
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bloody_kisser
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Time:2006-10-03 01:07 am (UTC)
I'd talk about taking a break. You should see if you can find someone better for you (And trust me, you can). He doesn't seem that caring of your feelings, and if he's not, then fuck him. You're the best thing he has, and he should damn-well appreciate something as great as you.

He doesn't seem worth the time... I've had similar situations. Sorry to hear that you're going through this. :(

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